Who should you prioritize?

Family or poors? Who should you prioritized? Not only in giving the best version of you to serve those people in your life. We're gonna talk in terms of donating money and stuffs.

People used to have this thought of giving charity and donate to the poverties out there even you didn't know them, will promise you some shares soon in hereafter. Do you realize that actually you should prioritized your close family more than poverties out there. If you are brother to your sisters, man to your women, husband to your wife, you bear the responsibility even more. Some people neglected these responsibilties that had been exist since they were born just to raise their names in crowd to gain full respect and praise from the community.

Rosulullah SAW juga bersabda : "Orang yang bersedekah pada orang yang bukan kerabat dan bukan tetangga sedangkan kau tahu bahwa kerabat dekat dan tetanggamu lebih membutuhkan maka seperti orang yang tidak bersedekah bahkan dalam riwayat lain disebutkan bahwa sedekah tersebut tidak di terima." 

That is because some of them are obliged to spend because of relatives. There are also those who have been circumcised as a charity and to connect friendship. In fact, there are also those who are obliged to spend with marriage.
See? As cliche as it seems, family comes first right? Stand with those who stands with you. :)



Reference:

http://info-muslim.blogspot.my/2007/07/sedekah-untuk-ahli-keluarga-dapat-lebih.html


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