Tie the knot!

Assalamualaikum my beautiful readers,

The first thing that would cross my mind when people said MARRIAGE  which is equals to FAMILY GOALS. LOL, I know, I watched too many kdramas. :p However, I had also grew up watching and observing lots of wedding ceremonies around me until now, at the age of not really sweet 20. I think it's not wrong to talk about marriage at this age. Besides, i'm sure there are some got married already just like some of my friends.

Why do we have to get married?

In Islam Marriage is an essential piece of a Muslim's life. Truth be told marriage is so essential in the religion of Islam that it is proclaimed to be one portion of one's confidence. As a Muslim one should live as per the Islamic Jurisprudence in the route appeared by the best of manifestations and the individual who was the best effect on humankind in the presence of the universe, our Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W).

It has been reported that The Prophet Muhammad said,

‘A person who possesses the means to marry (i.e. he is able to work etc. to support a wife and children) and does not marry then he is not from amongst us (i.e. the believers).’

1. To avoid all the wrongdoings between a guy and a girl. According to syariah and Islamic laws, right after the akad in nikah, it means you are considered as wife and husband. Marriage let the unity of two souls with the same feeling, to love each other. Through marriage, existence of halal relationship to let these two souls backing up and to protect each other. Marriage could also be considered as perfection of life.

2. Responsibility to broad the Ummah population. Having kids is one of the goals in marriage life. the responsibility and amanah from Allah. Kids, is the qurrotu aa'yun like I've explained in my previous blog post in completing the parents life even more. The cheers and joys to their life. We need to take care of this new generation to help the ummah, to protect the religion and to lead the ummah to be better and to lead the future generation right back to the path of His blessings.

Get married when the time has come and when you are ready.

Peace and love. <3




Reference :

https://baitulmuslim.com/content/mengapa-islam-menggalakkan-perkahwinan-0

http://www.inter-islam.org/Lifestyle/marry.htm

http://www.bbc.co.uk/religion/religions/islam/ritesrituals/weddings_1.shtml

http://www.iupui.edu/~msaiupui/marr.html

  



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