God's meaningful gift.

Assalamualaikum all my beautiful seekers,

Child is the most beautiful gift that ever happened to every parents. Yearning and wanting to have them is like the most challenges phase for every marriage life. Doesn't matter if you are still single or married, everybody will soon have this one feeling tangling inside them to have this beautiful gift.
have you ever think of the reasons behind this cute adorable gift?



In Al-Quran Allah almighty, classify the position of children into 4 groups :

1. There are children as enemies

Allah has stated in surah At-Tagobun verse 14 which means:

“Wahai orang-orang yang beriman..!! Sesungguhnya di antara istri-istrimu dan anak-anakmu ada yang menjadi musuh bagimu, maka berhati-hatilah kamu terhadap mereka, dan jika kamu maafkan dan kamu santuni serta ampuni (mereka), maka sungguh Allah Maha Pengampun Maha Penyayang.”

To be classified, there is some children that could possibly drag their parents to commit unauthorized acts of religion.

2. There are children as a test from Him.

He explained in the surah At-Tagobun verse 15, which means :

“Sesungguhnya hartamu dan anak-anamu hanyalah cobaan (bagimu) , dan di sisi Allah pahala yang besar.”

if their children get involved in negative attitude and promiscuity, their parents would bare all the shamefulness in perceiving and facing all the community surround them. It is the moment where the parent would have difficulties and the most challenging one. This is the time where the parents would probably chased them out and they don't want to recognize them as their child.


3. Children as jewelry.

He explained in the surah Al-Kahfi averse 46, which means :

“Harta dan anak-anak adalah perhiasan kehidupan dunia tetapi amal kebajikan yang terus-menerus adalah lebih baik pahalanya di sisi Tuhanmu serta lebih baik untuk menjadi harapan.”

The jewelry means both of their parents glad and happy for their existence as they are proud for any achievement of study performance and also perceiving their dreams, basically it means that they are successful. Giving a good perception for the parents name till the end of their times.

4. Children as "qurrotu aa'yun" or apple of the eyes.

He explained in surah Al- Furqan verse 74, which means:

“Dan orang-orang yang berkata” Ya Tuhan kami, anugerahkanlah kepada kami pasangan kami dan keturunan kami sebagai penyenang hati (kami) dan jadikanlah kami pemimpin bagi orang-orang yang bertakwa.”


They are children who when asked to worship, such as prayer, they will immediately perform it with joy.
When instructed to learn, they immediately obey it. there are also children with good characters and morals,
polite in their words and has high sense of responsibility.
Everything is up to the children's parents to shaped and raise them as who they wanted them to be.



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